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I've started the ball rolling with a discussion on pain and crying. From the results to date in Poll 2 and Poll 3, the majority of you expect to give or receive (depending on orientation) pain which exceeds the limits of the bottom and want to have the bottom crying by the end of the scene. 88% of TOPs and 80% of bottoms wanted tears in some or all scenes. 44% of TOPs and 33% of bottoms always want a scene to end in tears. Only 4% of TOPs and 7% of bottoms never wanted tears in a scene.
76% of TOPs and 79% of bottoms want a scene to take the bottom over his limits - with 27% of TOPs and 25% of bottoms wanting this to be considerably over limits. Only 11% of TOPs or bottoms did not wish to exceed limits.
